Saturday, January 19, 2008

Friends?

Sometimes in life, you have to stop and wonder about your friends. Your REAL friends.
Well, I sure do. I have friends, a select few who I choose to call friends.

But recently, trust issues have developed. So, what do you do in those cases?

Me, I am just pretending like nothing is any different. But why do I do that? I dont know to be honest with you. It bothers me to no end.

When friends become friends with someone whom you dont trust you come to question some things.

With a good memory you catch your friends in lies, simple but lies just the same. Friends do NOT lie to friends. No matter what the case is. If it cant be said, say it, I cant tell you that. But dont freaking lie~

What is a friend?


-a person you know well and regard with affection and trust; "he was my best friend at the university"
-ally: an associate who provides assistance; "he's a good ally in fight"; "they were friends of the workers"
-acquaintance: a person with whom you are acquainted; "I have trouble remembering the names of all my acquaintances"; "we are friends of the family"

So, taking the first definition, a person you know well and regard with affection and trust. How can you regard someone with affection and trust after they have violated that trust?

Do you forget it, move on? What? Me, I hang in there thinking my friends are my friends and always will be. But I question it more. I think maybe I will start to isolate myself from some people. You know?